I'm Everywhere

I'm Everywhere

This the the extension of my presence into the Tumblr-sphere. Most posts are copied from my blog.

  1. Wisdom for Allies

    Yesterday afternoon I spent some time on Twitter arguing with another white guy about his shitty way of “helping” women and other oppressed groups. He thinks its totes cool to scold feminists about being impolite and uncivil, even after acknowledging that politeness and civility are not at all objective standards.

    In order to try and be globally positive and not make myself hate everyone I started tweeting advice for other allies with the #WisdomForAllies tag. Here they are for Tumblr:

    • It’s not your job or your place to approve oppressed people’s issues or speech.

    • Society tells you to be in charge. This is not your fight. Ask how to help.

    • Not being an oppressive creep is its own reward. Don’t expect or demand medals, cookies, or blowjobs for helping.

    • When someone points out a blind spot or error on your part they are helping you. Learning makes you a badass.

    • Any movement to empower an oppressed group that takes marching orders from the privileged is a fraud.

    • If you pout and threaten to quit because someone wasn’t nice to you, you’re a narcissist not an ally.

    • Justice and equality are more important than your comfort. Reverse those priorities and you are an oppressor.

  2. Under the current ‘tyranny of slenderness’ women are forbidden to become large or massive; they must take up as little space as possible. The very contours of a woman’s body takes on as she matures - the fuller breasts and rounded hips - have become distateful. The body by which a woman feels herself judged and which by rigorous discipline she must try to assume is the body of early adolescence, slight and unformed, a body lacking flesh or substance, a body in whose very contours the image of immaturity has been inscribed. The requirement that a woman maintain a smooth and hairless skin carries further the theme of inexperience, for an infantilized face must accompany her infantilized body, a face that never ages or furrows its brow in thought. The face of the ideally feminine woman must never display the marks of character, wisdom, and experience that we so admire in men.
    - Sandra Lee Bartky, Foucault, Femininity, and the Modernization of Patriarchal Power (via sociophilia)

    Word.

    (via thelastblogicorn)

  3. aminatou:

FUCK YOU BELVEDERE VODKA

Well isn’t this just horrible.

    aminatou:

    FUCK YOU BELVEDERE VODKA

    Well isn’t this just horrible.

  4. My Holiday Punch Recipe

    It needs a name:

    • 750 ml aged rum
    • 52 oz apple juice
    • 60 oz hard cider
    • 10 oz spiced brown sugar simple syrup*

    Juice and cider are chilled. Mix all in punch bowl, stir, garnish with sliced apples and cinnamon sticks.

    * Warm and stir equal parts water and light brown sugar. Add WHOLE cinnamon stick, clove, and nutmeg to taste. Let it steep and cool with spices in for at least one hour. Strain and chill to room temperature.

    (The punch bowl was set in a larger ice-filled bowl to keep it cool all day.)

  5. Review: Nerd Do Well by Simon Pegg

    Nerd Do Well: A Small Boy’s Journey to Becoming a Big Kid by Simon Pegg

    I don’t normally read celebrity memoirs, but I’m a fan of Pegg’s and had been hearing good things about this one. It was an engaging read and made me laugh a few times. The problem is, these sorts of memoirs are a rather thin sauce when it comes to substance. Seemingly the biggest hurdle Pegg had to overcome was being from a rural area, so there’s not a lot of drama. My favorite bits were his critical analyses of Star Wars and other genre films. I think that if he published a book like that I could unreservedly recommend it, but for this one I can only recommend it if you are a Pegg-mad super fan.

  6. We need to open a new front in the secular war against irrationality.

    About a month ago Rebecca Watson put into words something I’d been thinking myself. Women’s rights are not being taken as a series priority by the secular movement in this country. I’ll go further and say that LGBT rights and racial equality are also not being taken as seriously as they ought to be. Rebecca asked “Why aren’t more of the big secular organizations decrying what’s happening?” I have an idea why, and it has to do with privilege. Straight, white, male privilege. The skeptic movement is overwhelmingly straight, white, male, and economically comfortable - and that is a problem.

    Some secularists claim that “politics” are outside the scope of our movement. That’s an easy out, but is plainly not true. The secular movement should and does insert itself into political debates on issues like creationism in school and climate change denial. (Though we all know that lots of secularists edge-toward and occasionally embrace climate change denial.) Why is the activism so tepid on these issues? Abortion right are being attacked with lies and pseudo-science. The fight for equal rights for homosexual men and women is being undercut by ridiculous counter-rational claims that influence public perceptions of the issue. Racist lies are spread to influence public sentiment for political ends. What’s more, all of these distortions of fact and science are being perpetrated by the same people who want to deny climate change and tear down the wall between church and state. Battering them on one side while ignoring their other assaults doesn’t sound like an effective strategy to me.

    The secular movement picks and chooses it’s causes, just like any other movement. We ignore these issues at our peril. The war on women and gays is a clear and present danger to freedom in this country and is a major front in the campaign to turn our country (and you people outside the US, they’re coming for you next) into a theocratic cess-pit. We ignore it at our peril. What’s more, not defending our fellow human beings from lies, distortions, and attacks on their civil rights and dignity makes us unworthy of the “Humanist” label we wear so proudly.

    Our movement is, with notable exceptions (some in prominent positions), a straight, white, and male movement. Many of us are blinded by the privilege given us by society. We fail to see the danger when it is not directed at us. We need to rise above our assumptions and social blindness and open this new front in our campaign against unreason. It is the moral thing to do, it uses the tactics skepticism is all about combating, and it is a battle against an enemy we are already fighting.

    In coming months I plan to elaborate on all of this. I think this is an important fight and I think that the secular movement as a whole - not just the self identified progressives, liberals, and feminists - needs to needs to join it. Protecting people’s rights against irrational fear and confusion is more important than disproving the claims of fraudulent psychics.